I might add that I don’t like anyone being called ‘a coward’.
It’s a great Victorian or Edwardian eptithet, but it means nothing.
I find it particularly obnoxious when women at no risk of immediate harm but expecting men to go off to distant places to defend them handed them white feathers, in both world wars, presumably plucked from a chicken which was not a ration available to the troops who were actually fighting in far off places to save these grand feminist heroines.
Courage is doing something you’re scared of doing. The more you’re scared of it, the more courageous your act.
Some blokes of gentle disposition displayed more courage just going into camp than others of greater fortitude did charging the enemy under fire.
Some blokes who fought on and on, fighting their fear every moment, couldn’t do it any more. They didn’t become life-long ‘cowards’ in a moment, nor did their moment of inability to continue wipe out what they had endured and done beforehand.
I don’t know how I’d define a coward.
I do know I’d be very reluctant to label any soldier, sailor or airman who was on active service facing the enemy as a coward.
That’s not the same thing as regarding a man as letting down his mates, which is both a lesser and greater offence.