Maybe I missed something, but I didn’t see anything on the linked site to establish that the listed items were found in graves.
Scrolling through the site, I doubt that many of the items are genuine. I suspect that it’s been salted with a lot of helmets which probably aren’t genuine and which have been improved with nice new badges etc, although the badge improvements etc are acknowledged.
Probably just capitalism / commerce at its amoral best, as practised in Russia’s current laissez faire economy in the same weird fashion that China pays spiritual homage to its communist heritage while being a rampant capitalist economy run by the Party communists who profit magnificently from their control of that bizarre economy.
But your post does raise the difficult question: Who owns, or perhaps who should control, personal (i.e. items of personal equipment as distinct from, say, sunk war ships) war relics?
Standard issue uniforms, webbing, helmets, weapons etc were not, as far as I’m aware, the personal property of service people in any nation in WWII, and probably not before or after in 20th century wars. Although some of us may, by administrative or other accident, still be storing issued items in the expectation that the authorities will in due course collect the items they failed to collect upon our discharge, with thanks to us for preserving these items at no cost to our government. And, in my case, an item I bought privately with my own money because it wasn’t issued and which now, although not then, is a controlled weapon and hangs in my garden shed in its khaki scabbard waiting for some cop with nothing better to do than charge me with having - WAIT FOR IT - a machete.
If one of the helmets with a bullet hole for sale on the linked site belonged to, say, a father who died from the bullet which made the hole, I’d expect that the descendants would see that as considerably personalising the government issued helmet.
If one really wants to pursue this line of thought, where does it take us with items such as Japanese soldiers’ and even civilian corpses’ skulls treated as trophies by Western forces which would have been outraged if their troops had been subjected to the same treatment?
http://time.com/3880997/young-woman-with-jap-skull-portrait-of-a-grisly-wwii-memento/
http://bangordailynews.com/2010/08/26/news/bangor/japanese-trophy-skull-finally-returning-home/