Forget about building a nation sympathetic to the West. (And why should they be sympathetic to the West, any more than the West should be sympathetic to the various and, by local standards as legitimate as Western local standards, quite legitimate local ideologies in places where it tries to impose Western views for its own purposes?)
The fatal mistake by all Western powers so far has been to think that a foreign power and culture can come in and impose its culture and values upon the entrenched culture and values of another nation or people, and expect them to accept it without resistance, never mind being grateful for it.
That makes about as much sense as Hitler succeeding in invading Britain in 1940-41 and expecting Britons to be delighted by the imposition of Nazism on them, and expecting them not to resist a Nazi occupation.
But in Afghanistan there is a much greater problem, being that it is not a nation and that it does not have anything remotely resembling Western institutions of nationality, government, and the underpinning social, cultural, and political attitudes and institutions which are a pre-condition to ‘nation to nation’ dealings, including things of a warlike nature.
What hope is there for ‘nation to nation’ dealings when, for example, a so-called warlord extracts millions of dollars from the occupying but still not controlling American etc force to give them security from attack when travelling on roads in his region? (And guess who, Mafia protection-like, might be the one who launches such attacks if not paid? Der!!!) Or acceptance of attacks on schools which dare to educate girls, purely because educating women threatens the dominant male theocracy. Christ (and I say that deliberately), even the Catholics never stooped that low.
Would the natives have converted to the invader’s dictates in Britain if Hitler succeeded in WWII or if America was occupied now?
No. Because Britain, America and other countries involved in Afghanistan have a concept of national identity and ‘democratic’ (whatever that means) notions which are absent from the largely tribal areas under local control of people not answerable to or controlled by any national government, largely because there is no national government but just a façade put up by the invaders and willingly supported by the privileged locals who benefit from it. The ‘Mayor of Kabul’ is a well deserved title for a President who can’t visit most of his country without risk. Meanwhile, the people who control the unstable areas can be, and often have been, bought by various elements hostile to the invaders to support them, even if they were supporting the other side a couple of weeks ago.
And here’s why Afghanistan ain’t ever going to work under Western occupation after the foolish decision to occupy it after flattening it. The essential problem is that the invader is not equal to the enemy in the way the invader conducts its ‘war’. The ‘enemy’ is ruthless and unfettered in its operations way beyond anything that the Western powers could begin to contemplate with the modern bullshit of lawyers at the Western operational commanders’ right hand advising on rules of engagement etc and determining what operations may be undertaken. There will never be a mine which destroys a village in retaliation for an IED which kills however many were in the vehicle. Whether that is effective is debatable, given the German practice in the Balkans and elsewhere of retaliatory execution of civilians, but we’ll never know because in the modern world the good guys always fight with one or both hands tied behind their back.
Then again, the Soviets didn’t restrain themselves with legalistic Western restrictions like those now in Afghanistan. And they still lost.
Places like Afghanistan (or Yemen or Somalia etc) and other ‘nations’ not approximating Western nations’ identity and values really do little more than comprise random assemblages of sundry cultural and other groups under the guise of a nation left over from the arbitrary lines drawn by now defunct colonial powers half a century or a century or more ago.
We ain’t comparing apples with apples, and there ain’t no point expecting an apple resolution when we’re dealing with lemons on the other side.
[P.S. 32Bravo, Good to see you back.]