Do you really think it was somehow less of a social stigma to be an unmarried (heterosexual) promiscuous female in Hollywood that it was to be a lesbian? I think in many ways, being a lesbian would have been easier for her since social awareness of such things by the general public was probably low and she could have been just passed off her lack of marriage or boyfriends as the typical “spinster” or “old maid” archetype. The press rarely discussed such things beyond the occasional tabloid or subtle reference. She was almost certainly bisexual and seemed to form relationships with men more so than with women. Although she was pretty promiscuous with both sexes from what I gathered from a documentary I saw but whose title I have since forgotten. It might have been Ken Burns PBS series on the War. I may have been something on the History Channel such as “WWII In Color”.
Plus her affairs with US high officers didn’t make the germ public to burn by desire to see her back in Germany.
No question. But perhaps they understood her dalliances with enlisted men.
Though she would be far from the only German female that had a relationship with and Allied serviceman.
I seriously doubt much of this was public information and she had a carefully crafted image. But she was almost certainly a one-woman USO show for U.S. troops. And God bless her for it!