SPAM Filter trouble/Friend

I recently received a message saying someone wants to be on my “friends” list. I’m not entirely sure what that means on a forum, but in any case, I just want to say to whomever sent the message: I haven’t ignored you. The message (dated 7/17) was filtered by my SPAM program, and when I tried to retrieve it, instead it – vanished.

Humm, hopefully they’ll resend it.

Actually, the message just “arrived” – something funky going on with the SPAM filter, I suppose…